Monday, March 28, 2011

Live and let live... I guess she never heard that...

I am opening this blog as a way to vent all the trouble we are going thru all this time since I have been with Jason.

I remember when I just met Jason, him and his mother fill tell me this horrific stories about his ex wife, his mother hated her and didnt even want her to show her face around her house. We had a great relationship with his mother she help us move and we used to go for dinner with her because she lives alone and we felt bad, jason use to take her to the movies and spent some time with her alone for the same reason. Every was too good to be true... a few weeks after we moved in together all went to hell... his ex wife got to hold of our sdc account and got some pictures of us and show it to his mother... since then jason and I have not had a relationship with his mother again. well thats a little resumen how things started to get bad...

A year ago to the date... Jason and his ex got a sort of agreement were states that we cant invite any of our "friends" over in the house when we have the kids... OK I understand we violate the contract. Also the agreement says that the kids both of them cannot have any sleep over until they are 10 years old, and other stuff like no one can post pictures of the kids ... wich jason agreed dont ask why!!

Since they agreed to that jason got a steady job and we were working things out with her... trying to be nice with her for the  benefit of the kids. Because believe there is no way I will be nice to her for any other reason...

So last year Christmas eve just a couple of months ago, We are celebrating xmas the kids opened all their gifts we were having a blast ... we brought a gift that we bought for the kids to give their yiayia toni (jasons mom) every was lovely even when we went to see jasons mom she was very nice to us and we were amazed that happy that we saw a light at the end of the tunel and we were hoping that we can rebuild a relation with his mother... well... that same night we invited a couple of friends for dinner with us and the kids we had a lot of good food the kids had a blast they were riding my friends back as a horse it was very funny...
then after dinner jason was driving the kids back to their mother and she flipped out acusing us that the kids had dinner with us and nasty people that how could we exposed the kids to that etc etc.. she was calling him names and the text messges were very explicit... she was saying things like she was going to tell the kids all that we do and it was going to show the pictures that she was to the kids and stuff like that.. how sick of a person can do that kind of damaged to her own kids that prob wont even understand!!

Well from there is like day and night ... went from being nice to each other to not comunicating and calling the cops etc.. etc..

after xmas even the weekend coming it was our weekend to have the kids... she refuse to give us the kids saying that the kids didnt want to come.. we called the police and keep that on record at least.. we didnt want to show up in her house with the police and make a show and traumatize the kids. so it was filed with a police case number that all we needed to show jasons lawyer...

well 3 months went thru .. jason open a law case against  her with a hearing to enforced the agreement and his parental rights to see the kids.. jason will text her at least twice and week and she will answer fuck off... go fuck yourself.. etc etc... it was amazing she is such a bitch she wont let jason know how her kids were... what kind of mother is that... like that 3 months...  we have a hearing April 15 .. we cant wait

This past week something happened... after 4 days without knowing about the kids because she was ignoring his text messages so she left us no choice but to go check on the kids to see how they were... (the kids were fine...)  that was monday ... then thrusday comes and jason gets a called from the coconut creek police dept investigators dept... jason makes an appt with her for the next day she says its nothing legal ... just wants to talk with him in person.. friday morning i wake up early and go with jason at 7.30 to meet the investigator lady. She starts by saying that she talked with his ex wife and his daughter saying that fotini's therapist call child services because fotini said that jason touch her in her private parts twice... so  it was a crimical case until the investigator had an interview with fotni then realize that jason was giving her a bath (duuhh!!)... because she doesnt clean herself very well sometimes and she gets rashes... fotini show the detective the way jason was touching her and to the detective saw it was obvious that jason was just cleaning her... with that fotini told the detectice a bunch of other things that her mother told her,.. teaching her the work "mavri" the wat to say black people in greek but is almost like the n word... she also says that mama said that black people and people with a lot of tatto are bad people... so after interviewing fotini the detective saw that obviously her mother is fucking the kid up... and that jasons is beeing alienated from his kids... so she went to the other office and talk with jason ex... told her that she had no case that everything was fine that she had no case against jason that for what the little girl said hes a great dad... ands that she has no right to keep the kids away from him ... so the told her to shut up and let him see the kids the only one thats fucking the kids up its her!! it was so awesome we came out of that meeting so happy knowing that fnally someone other than us told her to her face that she is a freaking pshyco!!... 

AFTER 3 MONTHS we had the kids!!! yayyy it was awesome!!! we had a great weekend... until fotini asked to call her mother sunday night to say good night and to tell her mother to go pick her up early from aftercare because she miss her, she get on the phone and her mother asked her ...why dont you come how now?? ohhh jesus christ this woman makes me sick!!! I really want to slap her!!... why would she do that?? knowing that jason havent seeing the kids for so long after the police investigator told her to let us be with the kids... it was 9pm and the kids were ready to go to bed!! she tried to make a deal with jason on the phone saying that if we gave her the kids we could have them during the week for the night... thank god jason put his foot down and told her nicely that it was his weekend and that she can pick them up from school tomorrow. Fotini cried for a while we talked to her and then she was fine.. it the fact that her mother did that to her just to irritate her... it pisses me off!!

well I will keep updating this as much as the events happened so I can keep a record ... for us and for my mental health so i dont go crazy!!

I am attaching a picture she is just a crazy, selfish, jelous bitch!!!